Hey guys, happy chinese new year from me to you. Hope you will have a bright year ahead.

Well i got something interesting here today, i saw this link when i was playing this "Pet society"game on facebook and i agree to some points

The "I" or "me" in the following points isn't me is the author =)

Are You Making These Mistakes With Women?

"The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women- And What To Do About It."

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women- And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes.

-By David DeAngelo, Author Of "Double Your Dating"

MISTAKE #1: Being
Too Much Of A "Nice Guy"

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks". but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.

What's going on here?

It's actually very simple.

Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.

I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT. but GET OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To
"Convince Her To Like You"

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like. but she's just notinterested?

Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you. YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

Never, ever, EVER.

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".

Think about it.

If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?

But we all do it.

When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission

In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".

Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them. EVER.

Don't get me wrong here.

You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her.

MISTAKE #4: Trying To "Buy" Her
Affection With Food And Gifts

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?

If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.

Well guess what?

It's only NATURAL when this happens.

That's right, I said NATURAL.

When you do these things, you send a clear message:

"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".

Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.

MISTAKE #5: Sharing
"How You Feel" Too Early In
The Relationship With Her

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.

Attractive women are rare.

And they get a LOT of attention from men.

Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE

An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.

And guess what?

Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.

That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.

They know what to expect.

And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.

This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast. and can't control themselves.

Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.

There's a much better way.

MISTAKE #6: Not "Getting" How
Attraction Works For Women

Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.

You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.

When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.

But does the same apply for women?

Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?

Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?

Think about it.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men. and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.

And ANY guy can learn how.

MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It
Takes Money And Looks

One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started. because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money. or guys who are a certain height. or guys who are a certain age.

And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.

But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.

There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet.

And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.

YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.

Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE #8: Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women

Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.

Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.

Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.

Another bad idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over. Women aren't attracted to Wussies!

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing
EXACTLY What To Do In Each
Type Of Situation With Women

Now I'm going to blow your mind.

A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.

Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.

I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating.

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical. everything.

If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up. and LOSE EVERYTHING.

And you KNOW it.

It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman. from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

This is the biggest mistake of all.

This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.

I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.

Hey, I've been there myself.

Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women.

About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.

It frustrated the hell out of me.

One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night. right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.

Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.

I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.

It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling. like I don't know how to meet women. and I might wind up alone.

I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.

I've written a book on the topic, and I've done seminars on both coasts of the United States. and taught tens of thousands of men all around the world.

All gotten from http://www.datingadvicesecrets.com/men/ten-mistakes-men-make-5

Cheers =)

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Did the shoot for my classmate's project =)

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Here's a video from me! This Wednesday will be our MSP Event - Live IT and I'll be presenting haha.

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Blogging in school while waiting for my turn to present our project. Hmm, basically I'm looking at 1 word. "Unprepared" !!

But yea, bombing skills are required again haha.

Feeling tired right now, think is because i didn't sleep on Saturday or should i say just for an hour. Ho Ming and his friend, JiaRui came to my house to look for me at 9pm, for some help on their project which is dead-lined tommorrow! So, I stay on with them.

And..

We have a problem.

I'm trained in C# but they are using Visual Basic! Basically 2 different languages for programming. It's quite fun during the process for the fact that we are like ducks talking to chickens haha. So, I help them using a translator. But eventually i start to understand VB so slowly cut down on using it so that i'll be able to get back some VB knowledge. We worked all the way from 9+ to 7+ in the morning.

Just relieved knowing that, they are finishing.

Had some shopping yesterday and got a pair of new pants=)

My current piece for art ! =X Don't really have the mood these days, maybe because that I'm sad or tired. So doesn't really have the "feel" for the picture, however yesterday, I worked on a new brush style which basically changed my landscape of a country side hill to a Sephia Style Sea side.(Hopefully it looks like one lol)

Here's something that some girls might find disgusting when it's on your table but not on your dinner dish

Here's a crayfish (Freshwater Lobster) .Yes, a freshwater lobster is called a Crayfish!=)

But, this is not the crayfish i kept. This is his "shell" after molting. Well i didn't "skinned" him but Invertebrates such as lobsters, shrimps and crabs actually molts or get rid of their old shell to grow bigger! Their shells are actually remove fully attached, like the lobster itself. Which scared me the other die as i thought that he's dead.

What's interesting is that some crayfish keepers, actually keeps these shells and spray lacquer on it so that it will preserve it's colors and as well as protecting the shell. These shells were then keep in memorable as the shells will get bigger and bigger for a particular crayfish as it is growing. Some crayfish keepers even frame up the shells and give them out as gifts. Sad thing is they don't really molt often and should molt lesser and lesser as they grow. These shells can be really attractive as it carries the colors of the crayfish itself, mine is reddish , so the shell takes on the same colors.

Well, next group will be mine. Good luck to me haha

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I enjoying my time here, i love Live IT

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I feel so free~~~~~` Finally done my BSIT, Business Integration Technologies. It's a subject that helps systems/ applications to communicate with each other. It might sound weird at start but it does happens in the industry. Especially when our lecturer shows us a demo by speaking chinese to my indian friend where he ask her to speak back to him in indian! Woot! that scene is hilarious

Feeling old these days , looking at those O level students getting their results =/

2 years flies! Blink blink i in year 2 going year 3 already.

Monday i went Ngee Ann sec to promote abit on my School and looking at their crazy results! wow! and students were screaming, some crying tears of joy! Miss secondary school days though

JAE is from Tues to Fri which is tomorrow! please remember to make your choices! 1 particular diploma i want to recommand is my course!

T30 Diploma in Information

Technology !!

I'm proud to say that I've made the right choice 2 years ago, this diploma has provided me with endless opportunities to expose myself to challenges as well as realizing talents that i had dreamed of having. One that can be seen clearly would be my communication skills, 2-4 years I'm still a shy guy which i'll ask my buddy to present when ever there's a project. But now, I have the courage to speak in an LT and even enjoy it. What's worst is i realise that i'll go excited when i see the MIC!

To me, IT is about Creations, using Creativity to create Ideas that are Innovative. I enjoy it because i love creating stuffs. The process might be hard or harsh but the sense of satisfaction truly out runs it.

Not only that, i'm of a fine arts and design back ground and like i always said.

When IT meets Design, Miracles can happen!

Want to know more?

Diploma in Information Technology

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Building up my body haha i guess girls nowadays do prefer guys with at least alittle "buns" so yea, need some.

Went to Gym and hopefully won't ache again like the last time. Then..

Went for FTT and I PASSED! Finally i can start my practical and touch the steel moving metal box!

Later on, went back to school to hand in project and went out with my Buddy and Ting.

Had Ichiban for dinner. Woot the food is really fantastic.

I'll let the photos do the talking xD

Damn, looking at them makes me feel like going back. Reasonable prices and great food!

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Getting busier and busier these days due to assignments. 1 to hand in this friday, 2 next week 1 presentation next week. Hard to believe right? just starting of a new term. Well, this is block teaching. Facing your lecturers 4 hours per session , 1 or 2 sessions per week. Damn fierce and it will start to get boring haha.

Well, yesterday i took a walk after school to relax myself abit on the assignments so i walk half of bedok reservoir! since it's just next to my school and i can enjoy a wonderful view of the sun setting! pretty nice!

This picture above does not look like Singapore haha.

and there's the sun!

Guess what? this walk actually helps me to relax and when i reach home i suddenly can the ability to work out this whole project thing. Woot! the power of walking~ i mean relaxing =p
So, I'm in a very good mood after that so i decided to shift abit of crabbies tank as still waters requires frequent changing of water.

Here's 1 of my crabby climbing on my finger, i guess it might be gross for some people and would go "eeeeeeeeeee " lol i guess it's normal, it does has 8 legs afterall. Well some people would ask me how does it feel, when i started keeping them, i did not dare to play with them or catch them with my hands as i'm afraid that they might "kiap" me! but after sometime i realise they are more afraid then me and wouldn't "kiap" me. It actually feels kinda itchy when they are on your hands. But again, they are cute crabs!

Yes! i should learn to say Yes! more haha just caught the movie Yes Man awhile ago, i realise that they does have a point, as saying yes ( in other words taking initiatives) does take you to some where higher.

YES!

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End of 2008 and here comes 2009, hmm 2008 was fun but i guess time flies. Moving nearer to nearer to my turn to become bo tak! =(

Well took video as director and actor today for Ting's project , should be able to upload here after i've done it =) some NG scenes lol

Alright, some new year goals;

Improve my GPA xD
Successful in breeding of my pets lol
Slim down by 10 kg =X
Moving house soon, so i hope to move to Tampines, Hougang or erm.. Simei? =X
Time to move slower
Change to a nicer guy xD~~~~~~
Learn to save money!

Can't think of anymore i guess =)

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